A loss to our 311 family
Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2023 10:12 pm
Dear Roadster Family, I’m afraid I must impart some extremely sad news that came to my attention this afternoon, and that is the sudden and totally unexpected passing of my/our friend and 311s family member Pat Collins, known here as Unklpat. A mutual friend texted me and reported that Pat had been found at home yesterday by family after he had failed to respond to phone calls etc. While I have no direct information, it appeared that he had died peacefully on the couch, but the cause is yet unknown.
I was completely shocked by this news. I had spoken with Pat just last week and made tentative plans to get together and go for a drive as soon as my motor was done, as we had been discussing it throughout the entire process. I texted him yesterday that the engine was done and we were closer to a drive... and like family didn't hear back.
I’ve only known Pat for a few years, but for me he was always a stand up guy. Always generous, always willing to help. This past December, after my car accident left me with a broken back and ankle, when an errant chunk of metal punched a hole in my wife’s Z3 transmission cover and left us with no transportation it was Pat whom I called, and it was Pat who came, removed the pan, took me (in his Roadster) to the welder, then multiple parts stores to get what we needed, then did the whole job for me and drove home in the cold, an hour and a half away. He had even bought me lunch. That was just one example. I know he could (and did) ruffle some feathers here and elsewhere, and many a firey conversation was had here on 311s, but I always found him funny, honest, passionate and even humble. He was someone I respected and was glad and honored to call a friend.
I so wish I’d had more time to develop that friendship. He knew so many things, had experience doing a wide variety of jobs or careers or hobbies… the few I know of ranged from bee keeping to orchards to sound and stereo/home theatre design to health care. He almost always had some insight or thought or experience with whatever you were working on. I was looking forward to our drives, for the chance to sit and BS some more, to dig in and share insights about life that come from experience, good and bad, then thought and reflection, shared. I was looking forward to this human being. I feel robbed.
Pat, I know you are resting in peace my friend, cause you were a good guy. A damn good guy. A true Roadster guy. I will miss you. We all will.
I was completely shocked by this news. I had spoken with Pat just last week and made tentative plans to get together and go for a drive as soon as my motor was done, as we had been discussing it throughout the entire process. I texted him yesterday that the engine was done and we were closer to a drive... and like family didn't hear back.
I’ve only known Pat for a few years, but for me he was always a stand up guy. Always generous, always willing to help. This past December, after my car accident left me with a broken back and ankle, when an errant chunk of metal punched a hole in my wife’s Z3 transmission cover and left us with no transportation it was Pat whom I called, and it was Pat who came, removed the pan, took me (in his Roadster) to the welder, then multiple parts stores to get what we needed, then did the whole job for me and drove home in the cold, an hour and a half away. He had even bought me lunch. That was just one example. I know he could (and did) ruffle some feathers here and elsewhere, and many a firey conversation was had here on 311s, but I always found him funny, honest, passionate and even humble. He was someone I respected and was glad and honored to call a friend.
I so wish I’d had more time to develop that friendship. He knew so many things, had experience doing a wide variety of jobs or careers or hobbies… the few I know of ranged from bee keeping to orchards to sound and stereo/home theatre design to health care. He almost always had some insight or thought or experience with whatever you were working on. I was looking forward to our drives, for the chance to sit and BS some more, to dig in and share insights about life that come from experience, good and bad, then thought and reflection, shared. I was looking forward to this human being. I feel robbed.
Pat, I know you are resting in peace my friend, cause you were a good guy. A damn good guy. A true Roadster guy. I will miss you. We all will.